Managing Your Temporary Sexual Bond

Males create a Temporary Sexual Bond with whatever he THINKS about, or SEES when Masturbating and Ejaculating.

The Male Natural Organic Sexual Attraction for females will always remain, and does not require masturbation for it's existence. However it can be 'distorted' or overshadowed by obsessive masturbation to 'other' images.

His Temporary Sexual Bond must be maintained through consistent reinforcement, since one masturbation based sexual bond does not last long.

This also requires him to constantly seek out new IMAGES(porn) to use for masturbation and ejaculation. Even if he finds another male to masturbate with, he will still need to 're-enforce' his Temporary Masturbation Bond in order to maintain a sexual 'bond' with the attributes of other males.

Average males who do not understand what's happening, will eventually feel 'more' sexually attracted to the admired attributes of other males over time. Masculinity(strength, aggressiveness, self-confidence), is the #1 male attribute males with low self esteem will create a Temporary Sexual Bond with.

Average males who masturbate to 'straight' porn are the largest group who will suffer from this unintended side effect.

What he does not realize is that even if his focus is the female, the male hired for his larger penis is also in view.

And before long, the 'average' male begins to seek out more 'straight' porn to masturbate with, based on the penis size of the male in the 'straight' porn.

Eventually he will end up seeking out male porn on the internet for masturbation.

And he has no idea how it happened.

But now he is being told constantly by the media and every male porn website that he is now 'gay'.

He now must sneak and go to gay themed websites to find more male porn to masturbate to.

Males who are trying to create an identity/lifestyle based on their Temporary Sexual Bond with the 'attributes' of other males tell him to make the same choice they did, because he is 'just like them'.

TEST YOURSELF:

Stop masturbating for at least 5 Days -

1. You will become restless, since you may have been using masturbating to release energy to sleep each night, or to relieve some of your boredom and loneliness.

• Solution: Go for a walk each evening to clear your mind. Don't go to the gym, because it's only a source for more masturbation images with males also stuck trying to create themselves into the image they have masturbated to for so long.

2. You become more 'picky' with the males you will feel 'attracted' to. All the little things about most every male will become more of a problem for you.

• Solution: Pay attention to the growing list of male attributes that turn you off.

3. You will begin to feel stronger, more powerful, more aggressive, more self-confident, more Masculine.

• This is because the less you masturbate to male images you feel are 'better' than your own, the more self-confident you will begin to feel about your own body image and masculinity.

4. More women begin to catch your eye. Maybe nothing sexual, but that you begin to pay attention to her femininity and beauty.

NEXT 5 DAYS:

1. If you really need to masturbate to release sexual energy, ONLY use an image of a female you feel is sexually attractive.

• Solution: Use a visual or mental image. If you need a male in the image, use yourself and NEVER another male.

2. Your self confidence continues increase. You continue to feel an increased level of masculinity, strength, self-confidence.

3. You will begin to think about a future that includes the potential of a wife and children.

What begins to happen very quickly is that the Temporary Sexual Bond you created, possibly in puberty, starts to fade away.

However, the issues of low self esteem created through consistent masturbation to male attributes you wished you had, will take longer and more effort to overcome. Just like any other issue of low self esteem.

But what's important is that you understand and are able to take control of your Temporary Masturbation Based Sexual Bond you created with ONLY the attributes of another male.

FOR THE LONG TERM:

Here are a few maintenance tips to help you along the way:

1. Stop watching porn of any kind. Magazines, Web, etc.

2. Stop lifting weights in a gym in an attempt to create a body image like other male. Walk and play sports instead.

3. Focus on your hobbies and interests, since the obsession with masturbation will have restricted you to constantly looking for images to masturbate with, or other males to masturbate with.

4. Avoid time with other males still obsessed with masturbation or obsessed with the attributes of masculinity or body image of other males, they feel lacking in themselves.

So give it a try.

You really have nothing to lose, but Your Life to Gain!

It's OK to Be Gay, ONLY If They Get PAID!

Still can't figure out why the Media seems to be your only friend?

Can't figure out why it's only the people in the Media that support your choice to create an identity and lifestyle based on homosexual(masturbation) TYPE sexual activity?

There is a very simple answer for this.

It's because they get PAID if you make that 'choice'.

Actors on tv shows and movies will tell you it's OK to BE Gay, and will even 'pretend' to be gay in acting roles, will write 'stories' where the masculine male will be 'attracted' to the feminine male, and provide an 'happily ever after ending' with two males simulating a male/female union, but they will ONLY do this as long as you watch their shows to increase ratings, buy their DVDs and buy tickets to their movies.

Even when actors try to bring the 'make believe' into the real world and try to live the Gay lifestyle they sold you, it fails them quicker than it does you. But they continue on 'selling' the concept of Gay, but now they are stuck trying to justify their own 'choice'.

Singers tell you it's OK to be gay, and will even take on many gay stereotypes, as long as you buy their CDs and buy tickets to their concerts.

Corporations tell you it's OK to be gay, as long as you buy their products and services.

The Porn Industry tell you it's OK to be gay, as long as you Buy their porn on the web, increase hits on Gay porn/Chat/Dating/Hook-Up/Sex websites, and remain addicted to using porn for the masturbation, that has now become your identity and your sexuality.

But as you know, the only people that DON'T tell you it's OK to adopt a Gay(masturbation) based identity/lifestyle, is your Family and Your Society.

WHY?

Because they are NOT getting Paid.

Just think about that for a minute. Notice how your only Gay Advocates, are only those that get paid if you choose to remain stuck with an identity/lifestyle based on chasing after the male attributes, you wished you had in yourself. When you know you are consistently rejected by the males with those 'admired' male attributes.

Even if your 'upgrade' male uses you for masturbation or a sexual 'release' when bored or horny, as soon as he ejaculates, he won't be able to get away from you fast enough. Because it's not about you, but the fact that you both are stuck in the same cycle.

Both looking for the masculinity, more muscular body that 'simulates' more masculinity, larger penis that 'simulates' more masculinity, that you feel lacking in yourself. And consistently being rejected by your object of desire, because 'he' will ONLY be looking for his upgrade also.

Even if you spend half your life in a gym to create a more muscular body image, you can't upgrade your masculinity or penis size, so even if your admired 'more' masculine male uses your body for a sexual 'release' when bored or horny, after ejaculation, he will reject you to continue his search for his more masculine male.

The same will happen to him when he finds a 'more' masculine male that he allows to use him for a sexual 'release'.

Even if you try and 'settle' for a less masculine male, trying to pretend it's not about the masculinity you feel lacking in yourself, you will still need to use porn for images of more masculine males to masturbate with, and eventually will need to masturbate with those more masculine males. The less masculine of the two of you will become frustrated, because he 'thought' he found a more masculine male who wanted a less masculine male. Which will never be the case, because the Attraction is based on low self-esteem and what he feels lacking in himself.

No matter how much the male tries to not make his 'attraction' for another male, not about seeking a masculinity, strength, body image, penis size upgrade, the failed outcome will always expose the same very consistent truth.

Until he realizes that the ONLY reason he has an 'attraction' for another male, is for the male attributes of masculinity, self confidence, strength, muscular body, larger penis, that he 'wished' he had, and feels lacking in himself. And the ONLY reason he has a 'sexual' bond with those attributes he is 'attracted' to, is due to consistent masturbation since puberty.

What confuses males so much, is the heavy media marketing of the concept of Gay, to the point that they try and see the reality of their own life experiences, through the 'make believe' world of tv, and movies. Not realizing that they are all 'actors' playing a role for profit.

But sadly, the only losers in the deal, are those males in the real world, who try to simulate 'make believe' in the real world, and continue to fail over and over again. Which caused him to degrade himself emotionally, physically and sexually in a desperate attempt to make the marketing concept of gay work for him.

So the outcome is that the Actors, singers corporations, porn industry make billions, and the males end up alone, lonely, depressed and addicted to porn. Blaming the 'other' males for not wanting to be with him.

When if he only understood that he is only trying to create a 'lifestyle' based on the side effects of childhood male low self-esteem, that is only getting worse through the marketing of exaggerated masculinity in tv and films, abnormally muscular bodies in advertisements for gyms and supplements, and abnormally large penis' of porn actors in the porn they view on a daily basis, that he 'wished' he had, which only serves to lower his own male self-esteem.

If he understood that if he stopped looking at porn, which includes naked male bodies on the web, men's witness/workout magazines, stopped masturbating to male images, he can start to reverse much of the damage years of masturbation has done to his male self esteem.

Once he is able to realize that no other male is better, no matter how masculine he 'thinks' he is, then there will be no 'attraction' to what he already has in himself.

Once he stops trying to obtain the abnormally muscular body image of another male in a gym, his self esteem around his own body image will increase, which is directly connected with his feelings of male masculinity.

But until he starts taking steps to unplug from what the media 'tells' him he should be, he will forever be stuck being 'used' by those who tell him it's OK to be Gay, only if they get Paid.

What Are They Really Asking For?

DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL...What an interesting situation.

What we have is a group of people who choose to define themselves by the TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), that they choose to participate in, demanding that others make it OK that they tell everyone, even those not interested in or participating in their chosen TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), the TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in.

THE QUESTIONS:

Why is it so important for some people to TELL others, what TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in?

Better yet, why is it only those who choose homosexual TYPE of sexual activity, that have become obsessed with TELLING others about their sexual activity?

THE ANSWER?

Could it be because when a person tries to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, the outcome looks a lot like the disfunction that is sexual obsession/addiction?

Just like fighting for same sex marriage, but when it's approved, they realize that there is really no one of the same gender that wanted to marry them in the first place.

A BETTER QUESTION:

Could it be that the never ending battle to force OTHERS to be OK with choosing to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, really has no positive outcome for the one making that choice?

But as long as they spend their energy 'fighting', they don't have time to focus on the reality that they will still be alone and lonely, obsessed with the attributes they 'wished' they had of someone of the same gender, and rejected by that person who is stuck looking for their own 'upgrade'........even after their society agrees to say it's OK to choose to BE Gay.

Because there is no happy ending, when your life, your identity is based on the side effects of low self-esteem.

THE BIG GAY TEST!

With the gay media constantly telling you that you were born Sexually Attracted to other males, don't you think it's time you found out if it's true for YOU?

What males don't understand that his masturbation since puberty, even to 'straight' porn, has created a manual sexual 'bond' with the images in the film, magazine or on the web. Which is why so many 'straight' males, find themselves becoming 'attracted' to other males with the more muscular body or larger penis from 'straight' porn.

Not knowing what's happening, he just 'assumes' that is naturally attracted to other males, or 'bi-sexual'. But the more he masturbates to the 'admired' male images, the less he feels naturally attracted to females. Which creates stress in his personal relationships with females and is unable to commit, as he feels the need to lie to her in order to seek masturbation with males with the body image, masculinity or penis size he has been masturbating to, even in 'straight' porn.

So this very simple test is for males who are either has been stuck masturbating to the male attributes he wished he had, or felt lacking in himself since puberty, or males who started masturbating later on in life due to the heavy marketing of the abnormally muscular male gym body, and abnormally large penis size of the actors hired for porn.

This test is not designed for males born Hermaphrodite, Intersex, Transgender, as these are born conditions that naturally has the gender-male, born more female physically and mentally, due to the mother living in fear/stress during the first trimester.

Try This Simple 1 Step Test:

Step#1: STOP MASTURBATING for just 30 Days!

What you will experience is:

1. You will become more 'picky' about other males you feel attracted to.

2. You realize most of your masturbation was due to being bored or lonely.

3. You will become confused about what to do with your time, since most of your time may have been searching for new 'visual' aids for masturbation on the web, in films or magazines.

4. You begin to feel stronger, more male, more masculine, more self-confident.

5. There is less and less about other males, you wished you had.

6. You begin to think more about your future, your girlfriend or family, or 'what if' you had a family?

7. You begin to realize that you really have little, or nothing in common with many of your committed 'gay' friends, or masturbation partners.

8. However, if you tell your committed 'gay' friends about your 'test' be prepared to be attacked, as they will see your actions as 'rejecting' them.

9. Conversations about sex and sexuality become less interesting to you.

10. You begin to focus on your other hobbies/interests that you almost forgot you had.

11. You begin to feel more respect for yourself, since there is less that you feel 'ashamed' about, that has you in fear of being 'judged' by your society.

12. You are able to establish friendships with other males, without the male first having to be a potential masturbation partner.

13. If you slip and masturbate... try and focus on you being the dominate male that is masculine, strong, self confident, and able to bring pleasure to the female. However, you must start over from Day 1, because it is the 'habit' of masturbation you are trying to break, and this requires you to complete the 30 day cycle.

GO AHEAD...TEST YOURSELF!

START TODAY!

This test costs you nothing, but would have an enormous impact on your self-esteem, your life and your future.

The Gay Brand

Being different in our world can be difficult. We all reject people based on race, age, height, weight, looks, religion, neighborhood, politics and even personal style. But one group is rejected by people across all categories. It's the Gay Group.

From a marketing perspective, the Gay Group creates quite a bit of negative press. Very much like the tobacco industry. No matter how much good they try and do, and how many try and prove to be 'different' than the rest of the group, they are all judged and rejected based on the common impression of the group.

When you think McDonald's, you think hamburgers and french fries. When you think Tide, you think laundry detergent and clean clothes. But when most people think Gay, they think sex, sexual obsession, sexual activity and body image obsession. Not such good representations of the Gay brand.

Unfortunately, this brand identity has been earned by the many people that choose to hide under the gay umbrella, because they know that any type of sexual activity is 'tolerated'. Even through there are millions of men and women who belong to the Gay brand that are normal and respectable members of our society, it may be the concept of 'non-judgment' or 'tolerance' for anyone and all sexual activity, that has damaged the brand.

Maybe just as our society has basic morals and values that we are asked to follow, the idea the hiding under the gay umbrella, excludes a person from those same basic morals and values, and the focus on the core group to 'tolerate' the rejection of those basic morals and values, is what further damages the gay brand.

So could it be that the rejection of those attached to the gay brand, including same sex marriage, is only a result of the public perception of the Gay Brand.

Are Gays and the Religious Really More Alike Than Different?

When you think about it, it seems that those who choose to hide under the gay umbrella, are really more like those who choose 'extreme' religious beliefs, which could be why they are in a constant battle.

Both have their beliefs based on non-factual information tied to what someone else told them, or what the group told them to believe about who they are, where they came from, and their purpose in life.

Both must reject their real world experiences, and hang on to 'group' beliefs that have a negative impact on their personal life, their family and their future, while in the 'group' pretending that they are happy.

Both must stay within their small 'group' of those that have that same belief system, and think like them, to maintain their belief system about themselves and the world, so that their life choices are validated.

Both believe that 'their' belief system is right, while the rest of society is wrong for not accepting their 'group' beliefs as normal.

Both must consistently, passionately and even violently reject scientific facts, and anyone who presents those facts that contradict their chosen beliefs about themselves as individuals, in order to hold on to their chosen 'group' beliefs.

Could it be that the conflict between the 'extreme' religious and the 'extreme' gays is based on the fact that each group is trying to validate their own false beliefs about who they are, by rejecting others who have not made that same 'choice'.

A Few Facts You Forgot On The Way To Becoming Gay

In the process and excitement of becoming 'gay', many people, young and old tend to forget a few basic facts. Unfortunately forgetting the basics, tend to lead them down roads they never wanted to travel, take risks they never expected, and lead lives they never intended.

Let's start with just a few basic facts:

- No living being is born 'gay'. Gay is only a group identifier for a wide range of people only based on sex and gender differences outside the norm.

- No living being can be 'homosexual' or 'heterosexual'. These are only definitions of 'types' of sexual 'activity' a being, male, female, or animal can have.

- Living beings are born male, female and Intersex/bisexual.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex one day, and homosexual type sex the next. It's always a choice.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex for 20 years, homosexual sex for a year, then heterosexual type sex for another 30 years.

- A person can have 'choose' to never have homosexual type sex but only heterosexual type sex.

- Or they can 'choose' to never have heterosexual type sex, but only homosexual type sex.

- All beings are to a degree mentally Intersex since all males start as females and all females receive testosterone from the mother.

- All beings to some degree biologically bisexual. It's just that for most of us, our dominate male or female aspect thats more balanced with our physical gender keeps our natural attraction toward the opposite sex.

So when you look at the facts, the road to 'being' gay is not that straight. So now just ask yourself, how many back roads and dark alleys have you had to travel, to end up choosing to 'be' gay?

Give it some thought.