Thursday, May 27, 2010

What Are They Really Asking For?

DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL...What an interesting situation.

What we have is a group of people who choose to define themselves by the TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), that they choose to participate in, demanding that others make it OK that they tell everyone, even those not interested in or participating in their chosen TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), the TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in.

THE QUESTIONS:

Why is it so important for some people to TELL others, what TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in?

Better yet, why is it only those who choose homosexual TYPE of sexual activity, that have become obsessed with TELLING others about their sexual activity?

THE ANSWER?

Could it be because when a person tries to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, the outcome looks a lot like the disfunction that is sexual obsession/addiction?

Just like fighting for same sex marriage, but when it's approved, they realize that there is really no one of the same gender that wanted to marry them in the first place.

A BETTER QUESTION:

Could it be that the never ending battle to force OTHERS to be OK with choosing to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, really has no positive outcome for the one making that choice?

But as long as they spend their energy 'fighting', they don't have time to focus on the reality that they will still be alone and lonely, obsessed with the attributes they 'wished' they had of someone of the same gender, and rejected by that person who is stuck looking for their own 'upgrade'........even after their society agrees to say it's OK to choose to BE Gay.

Because there is no happy ending, when your life, your identity is based on the side effects of low self-esteem.

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