Managing Your Temporary Sexual Bond

Males create a Temporary Sexual Bond with whatever he THINKS about, or SEES when Masturbating and Ejaculating.

The Male Natural Organic Sexual Attraction for females will always remain, and does not require masturbation for it's existence. However it can be 'distorted' or overshadowed by obsessive masturbation to 'other' images.

His Temporary Sexual Bond must be maintained through consistent reinforcement, since one masturbation based sexual bond does not last long.

This also requires him to constantly seek out new IMAGES(porn) to use for masturbation and ejaculation. Even if he finds another male to masturbate with, he will still need to 're-enforce' his Temporary Masturbation Bond in order to maintain a sexual 'bond' with the attributes of other males.

Average males who do not understand what's happening, will eventually feel 'more' sexually attracted to the admired attributes of other males over time. Masculinity(strength, aggressiveness, self-confidence), is the #1 male attribute males with low self esteem will create a Temporary Sexual Bond with.

Average males who masturbate to 'straight' porn are the largest group who will suffer from this unintended side effect.

What he does not realize is that even if his focus is the female, the male hired for his larger penis is also in view.

And before long, the 'average' male begins to seek out more 'straight' porn to masturbate with, based on the penis size of the male in the 'straight' porn.

Eventually he will end up seeking out male porn on the internet for masturbation.

And he has no idea how it happened.

But now he is being told constantly by the media and every male porn website that he is now 'gay'.

He now must sneak and go to gay themed websites to find more male porn to masturbate to.

Males who are trying to create an identity/lifestyle based on their Temporary Sexual Bond with the 'attributes' of other males tell him to make the same choice they did, because he is 'just like them'.

TEST YOURSELF:

Stop masturbating for at least 5 Days -

1. You will become restless, since you may have been using masturbating to release energy to sleep each night, or to relieve some of your boredom and loneliness.

• Solution: Go for a walk each evening to clear your mind. Don't go to the gym, because it's only a source for more masturbation images with males also stuck trying to create themselves into the image they have masturbated to for so long.

2. You become more 'picky' with the males you will feel 'attracted' to. All the little things about most every male will become more of a problem for you.

• Solution: Pay attention to the growing list of male attributes that turn you off.

3. You will begin to feel stronger, more powerful, more aggressive, more self-confident, more Masculine.

• This is because the less you masturbate to male images you feel are 'better' than your own, the more self-confident you will begin to feel about your own body image and masculinity.

4. More women begin to catch your eye. Maybe nothing sexual, but that you begin to pay attention to her femininity and beauty.

NEXT 5 DAYS:

1. If you really need to masturbate to release sexual energy, ONLY use an image of a female you feel is sexually attractive.

• Solution: Use a visual or mental image. If you need a male in the image, use yourself and NEVER another male.

2. Your self confidence continues increase. You continue to feel an increased level of masculinity, strength, self-confidence.

3. You will begin to think about a future that includes the potential of a wife and children.

What begins to happen very quickly is that the Temporary Sexual Bond you created, possibly in puberty, starts to fade away.

However, the issues of low self esteem created through consistent masturbation to male attributes you wished you had, will take longer and more effort to overcome. Just like any other issue of low self esteem.

But what's important is that you understand and are able to take control of your Temporary Masturbation Based Sexual Bond you created with ONLY the attributes of another male.

FOR THE LONG TERM:

Here are a few maintenance tips to help you along the way:

1. Stop watching porn of any kind. Magazines, Web, etc.

2. Stop lifting weights in a gym in an attempt to create a body image like other male. Walk and play sports instead.

3. Focus on your hobbies and interests, since the obsession with masturbation will have restricted you to constantly looking for images to masturbate with, or other males to masturbate with.

4. Avoid time with other males still obsessed with masturbation or obsessed with the attributes of masculinity or body image of other males, they feel lacking in themselves.

So give it a try.

You really have nothing to lose, but Your Life to Gain!

It's OK to Be Gay, ONLY If They Get PAID!

Still can't figure out why the Media seems to be your only friend?

Can't figure out why it's only the people in the Media that support your choice to create an identity and lifestyle based on homosexual(masturbation) TYPE sexual activity?

There is a very simple answer for this.

It's because they get PAID if you make that 'choice'.

Actors on tv shows and movies will tell you it's OK to BE Gay, and will even 'pretend' to be gay in acting roles, will write 'stories' where the masculine male will be 'attracted' to the feminine male, and provide an 'happily ever after ending' with two males simulating a male/female union, but they will ONLY do this as long as you watch their shows to increase ratings, buy their DVDs and buy tickets to their movies.

Even when actors try to bring the 'make believe' into the real world and try to live the Gay lifestyle they sold you, it fails them quicker than it does you. But they continue on 'selling' the concept of Gay, but now they are stuck trying to justify their own 'choice'.

Singers tell you it's OK to be gay, and will even take on many gay stereotypes, as long as you buy their CDs and buy tickets to their concerts.

Corporations tell you it's OK to be gay, as long as you buy their products and services.

The Porn Industry tell you it's OK to be gay, as long as you Buy their porn on the web, increase hits on Gay porn/Chat/Dating/Hook-Up/Sex websites, and remain addicted to using porn for the masturbation, that has now become your identity and your sexuality.

But as you know, the only people that DON'T tell you it's OK to adopt a Gay(masturbation) based identity/lifestyle, is your Family and Your Society.

WHY?

Because they are NOT getting Paid.

Just think about that for a minute. Notice how your only Gay Advocates, are only those that get paid if you choose to remain stuck with an identity/lifestyle based on chasing after the male attributes, you wished you had in yourself. When you know you are consistently rejected by the males with those 'admired' male attributes.

Even if your 'upgrade' male uses you for masturbation or a sexual 'release' when bored or horny, as soon as he ejaculates, he won't be able to get away from you fast enough. Because it's not about you, but the fact that you both are stuck in the same cycle.

Both looking for the masculinity, more muscular body that 'simulates' more masculinity, larger penis that 'simulates' more masculinity, that you feel lacking in yourself. And consistently being rejected by your object of desire, because 'he' will ONLY be looking for his upgrade also.

Even if you spend half your life in a gym to create a more muscular body image, you can't upgrade your masculinity or penis size, so even if your admired 'more' masculine male uses your body for a sexual 'release' when bored or horny, after ejaculation, he will reject you to continue his search for his more masculine male.

The same will happen to him when he finds a 'more' masculine male that he allows to use him for a sexual 'release'.

Even if you try and 'settle' for a less masculine male, trying to pretend it's not about the masculinity you feel lacking in yourself, you will still need to use porn for images of more masculine males to masturbate with, and eventually will need to masturbate with those more masculine males. The less masculine of the two of you will become frustrated, because he 'thought' he found a more masculine male who wanted a less masculine male. Which will never be the case, because the Attraction is based on low self-esteem and what he feels lacking in himself.

No matter how much the male tries to not make his 'attraction' for another male, not about seeking a masculinity, strength, body image, penis size upgrade, the failed outcome will always expose the same very consistent truth.

Until he realizes that the ONLY reason he has an 'attraction' for another male, is for the male attributes of masculinity, self confidence, strength, muscular body, larger penis, that he 'wished' he had, and feels lacking in himself. And the ONLY reason he has a 'sexual' bond with those attributes he is 'attracted' to, is due to consistent masturbation since puberty.

What confuses males so much, is the heavy media marketing of the concept of Gay, to the point that they try and see the reality of their own life experiences, through the 'make believe' world of tv, and movies. Not realizing that they are all 'actors' playing a role for profit.

But sadly, the only losers in the deal, are those males in the real world, who try to simulate 'make believe' in the real world, and continue to fail over and over again. Which caused him to degrade himself emotionally, physically and sexually in a desperate attempt to make the marketing concept of gay work for him.

So the outcome is that the Actors, singers corporations, porn industry make billions, and the males end up alone, lonely, depressed and addicted to porn. Blaming the 'other' males for not wanting to be with him.

When if he only understood that he is only trying to create a 'lifestyle' based on the side effects of childhood male low self-esteem, that is only getting worse through the marketing of exaggerated masculinity in tv and films, abnormally muscular bodies in advertisements for gyms and supplements, and abnormally large penis' of porn actors in the porn they view on a daily basis, that he 'wished' he had, which only serves to lower his own male self-esteem.

If he understood that if he stopped looking at porn, which includes naked male bodies on the web, men's witness/workout magazines, stopped masturbating to male images, he can start to reverse much of the damage years of masturbation has done to his male self esteem.

Once he is able to realize that no other male is better, no matter how masculine he 'thinks' he is, then there will be no 'attraction' to what he already has in himself.

Once he stops trying to obtain the abnormally muscular body image of another male in a gym, his self esteem around his own body image will increase, which is directly connected with his feelings of male masculinity.

But until he starts taking steps to unplug from what the media 'tells' him he should be, he will forever be stuck being 'used' by those who tell him it's OK to be Gay, only if they get Paid.