The Male Natural Organic Sexual Attraction for females will always remain, and does not require masturbation for it's existence. However it can be 'distorted' or overshadowed by obsessive masturbation to 'other' images.
His Temporary Sexual Bond must be maintained through consistent reinforcement, since one masturbation based sexual bond does not last long.
This also requires him to constantly seek out new IMAGES(porn) to use for masturbation and ejaculation. Even if he finds another male to masturbate with, he will still need to 're-enforce' his Temporary Masturbation Bond in order to maintain a sexual 'bond' with the attributes of other males.
Average males who do not understand what's happening, will eventually feel 'more' sexually attracted to the admired attributes of other males over time. Masculinity(strength, aggressiveness, self-confidence), is the #1 male attribute males with low self esteem will create a Temporary Sexual Bond with.
Average males who masturbate to 'straight' porn are the largest group who will suffer from this unintended side effect.
What he does not realize is that even if his focus is the female, the male hired for his larger penis is also in view.
And before long, the 'average' male begins to seek out more 'straight' porn to masturbate with, based on the penis size of the male in the 'straight' porn.
Eventually he will end up seeking out male porn on the internet for masturbation.
And he has no idea how it happened.
But now he is being told constantly by the media and every male porn website that he is now 'gay'.
He now must sneak and go to gay themed websites to find more male porn to masturbate to.
Males who are trying to create an identity/lifestyle based on their Temporary Sexual Bond with the 'attributes' of other males tell him to make the same choice they did, because he is 'just like them'.
TEST YOURSELF:
Stop masturbating for at least 5 Days -
1. You will become restless, since you may have been using masturbating to release energy to sleep each night, or to relieve some of your boredom and loneliness.
- Solution: Go for a walk each evening to clear your mind. Don't go to the gym, because it's only a source for more masturbation images with males also stuck trying to create themselves into the image they have masturbated to for so long.
2. You become more 'picky' with the males you will feel 'attracted' to. All the little things about most every male will become more of a problem for you.
- Solution: Pay attention to the growing list of male attributes that turn you off.
3. You will begin to feel stronger, more powerful, more aggressive, more self-confident, more Masculine.
- This is because the less you masturbate to male images you feel are 'better' than your own, the more self-confident you will begin to feel about your own body image and masculinity.
4. More women begin to catch your eye. Maybe nothing sexual, but that you begin to pay attention to her femininity and beauty.
NEXT 5 DAYS:
1. If you really need to masturbate to release sexual energy, ONLY use an image of a female you feel is sexually attractive.
- Solution: Use a visual or mental image. If you need a male in the image, use yourself and NEVER another male.
2. Your self confidence continues increase. You continue to feel an increased level of masculinity, strength, self-confidence.
3. You will begin to think about a future that includes the potential of a wife and children.
What begins to happen very quickly is that the Temporary Sexual Bond you created, possibly in puberty, starts to fade away.
However, the issues of low self esteem created through consistent masturbation to male attributes you wished you had, will take longer and more effort to overcome. Just like any other issue of low self esteem.
But what's important is that you understand and are able to take control of your Temporary Masturbation Based Sexual Bond you created with ONLY the attributes of another male.
FOR THE LONG TERM:
Here are a few maintenance tips to help you along the way:
1. Stop watching porn of any kind. Magazines, Web, etc.
2. Stop lifting weights in a gym in an attempt to create a body image like other male. Walk and play sports instead.
3. Focus on your hobbies and interests, since the obsession with masturbation will have restricted you to constantly looking for images to masturbate with, or other males to masturbate with.
4. Avoid time with other males still obsessed with masturbation or obsessed with the attributes of masculinity or body image of other males, they feel lacking in themselves.
So give it a try.
You really have nothing to lose, but Your Life to Gain!
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