A Few Facts You Forgot On The Way To Becoming Gay

In the process and excitement of becoming 'gay', many people, young and old tend to forget a few basic facts. Unfortunately forgetting the basics, tend to lead them down roads they never wanted to travel, take risks they never expected, and lead lives they never intended.

Let's start with just a few basic facts:

- No living being is born 'gay'. Gay is only a group identifier for a wide range of people only based on sex and gender differences outside the norm.

- No living being can be 'homosexual' or 'heterosexual'. These are only definitions of 'types' of sexual 'activity' a being, male, female, or animal can have.

- Living beings are born male, female and Intersex/bisexual.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex one day, and homosexual type sex the next. It's always a choice.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex for 20 years, homosexual sex for a year, then heterosexual type sex for another 30 years.

- A person can have 'choose' to never have homosexual type sex but only heterosexual type sex.

- Or they can 'choose' to never have heterosexual type sex, but only homosexual type sex.

- All beings are to a degree mentally Intersex since all males start as females and all females receive testosterone from the mother.

- All beings to some degree biologically bisexual. It's just that for most of us, our dominate male or female aspect thats more balanced with our physical gender keeps our natural attraction toward the opposite sex.

So when you look at the facts, the road to 'being' gay is not that straight. So now just ask yourself, how many back roads and dark alleys have you had to travel, to end up choosing to 'be' gay?

Give it some thought.