What Are They Really Asking For?

DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL...What an interesting situation.

What we have is a group of people who choose to define themselves by the TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), that they choose to participate in, demanding that others make it OK that they tell everyone, even those not interested in or participating in their chosen TYPE of sexual activity(homosexual), the TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in.

THE QUESTIONS:

Why is it so important for some people to TELL others, what TYPE of sexual activity they choose to participate in?

Better yet, why is it only those who choose homosexual TYPE of sexual activity, that have become obsessed with TELLING others about their sexual activity?

THE ANSWER?

Could it be because when a person tries to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, the outcome looks a lot like the disfunction that is sexual obsession/addiction?

Just like fighting for same sex marriage, but when it's approved, they realize that there is really no one of the same gender that wanted to marry them in the first place.

A BETTER QUESTION:

Could it be that the never ending battle to force OTHERS to be OK with choosing to BE a TYPE of sexual activity, really has no positive outcome for the one making that choice?

But as long as they spend their energy 'fighting', they don't have time to focus on the reality that they will still be alone and lonely, obsessed with the attributes they 'wished' they had of someone of the same gender, and rejected by that person who is stuck looking for their own 'upgrade'........even after their society agrees to say it's OK to choose to BE Gay.

Because there is no happy ending, when your life, your identity is based on the side effects of low self-esteem.

THE BIG GAY TEST!

With the gay media constantly telling you that you were born Sexually Attracted to other males, don't you think it's time you found out if it's true for YOU?

What males don't understand that his masturbation since puberty, even to 'straight' porn, has created a manual sexual 'bond' with the images in the film, magazine or on the web. Which is why so many 'straight' males, find themselves becoming 'attracted' to other males with the more muscular body or larger penis from 'straight' porn.

Not knowing what's happening, he just 'assumes' that is naturally attracted to other males, or 'bi-sexual'. But the more he masturbates to the 'admired' male images, the less he feels naturally attracted to females. Which creates stress in his personal relationships with females and is unable to commit, as he feels the need to lie to her in order to seek masturbation with males with the body image, masculinity or penis size he has been masturbating to, even in 'straight' porn.

So this very simple test is for males who are either has been stuck masturbating to the male attributes he wished he had, or felt lacking in himself since puberty, or males who started masturbating later on in life due to the heavy marketing of the abnormally muscular male gym body, and abnormally large penis size of the actors hired for porn.

This test is not designed for males born Hermaphrodite, Intersex, Transgender, as these are born conditions that naturally has the gender-male, born more female physically and mentally, due to the mother living in fear/stress during the first trimester.

Try This Simple 1 Step Test:

Step#1: STOP MASTURBATING for just 30 Days!

What you will experience is:

1. You will become more 'picky' about other males you feel attracted to.

2. You realize most of your masturbation was due to being bored or lonely.

3. You will become confused about what to do with your time, since most of your time may have been searching for new 'visual' aids for masturbation on the web, in films or magazines.

4. You begin to feel stronger, more male, more masculine, more self-confident.

5. There is less and less about other males, you wished you had.

6. You begin to think more about your future, your girlfriend or family, or 'what if' you had a family?

7. You begin to realize that you really have little, or nothing in common with many of your committed 'gay' friends, or masturbation partners.

8. However, if you tell your committed 'gay' friends about your 'test' be prepared to be attacked, as they will see your actions as 'rejecting' them.

9. Conversations about sex and sexuality become less interesting to you.

10. You begin to focus on your other hobbies/interests that you almost forgot you had.

11. You begin to feel more respect for yourself, since there is less that you feel 'ashamed' about, that has you in fear of being 'judged' by your society.

12. You are able to establish friendships with other males, without the male first having to be a potential masturbation partner.

13. If you slip and masturbate... try and focus on you being the dominate male that is masculine, strong, self confident, and able to bring pleasure to the female. However, you must start over from Day 1, because it is the 'habit' of masturbation you are trying to break, and this requires you to complete the 30 day cycle.

GO AHEAD...TEST YOURSELF!

START TODAY!

This test costs you nothing, but would have an enormous impact on your self-esteem, your life and your future.

The Gay Brand

Being different in our world can be difficult. We all reject people based on race, age, height, weight, looks, religion, neighborhood, politics and even personal style. But one group is rejected by people across all categories. It's the Gay Group.

From a marketing perspective, the Gay Group creates quite a bit of negative press. Very much like the tobacco industry. No matter how much good they try and do, and how many try and prove to be 'different' than the rest of the group, they are all judged and rejected based on the common impression of the group.

When you think McDonald's, you think hamburgers and french fries. When you think Tide, you think laundry detergent and clean clothes. But when most people think Gay, they think sex, sexual obsession, sexual activity and body image obsession. Not such good representations of the Gay brand.

Unfortunately, this brand identity has been earned by the many people that choose to hide under the gay umbrella, because they know that any type of sexual activity is 'tolerated'. Even through there are millions of men and women who belong to the Gay brand that are normal and respectable members of our society, it may be the concept of 'non-judgment' or 'tolerance' for anyone and all sexual activity, that has damaged the brand.

Maybe just as our society has basic morals and values that we are asked to follow, the idea the hiding under the gay umbrella, excludes a person from those same basic morals and values, and the focus on the core group to 'tolerate' the rejection of those basic morals and values, is what further damages the gay brand.

So could it be that the rejection of those attached to the gay brand, including same sex marriage, is only a result of the public perception of the Gay Brand.

Are Gays and the Religious Really More Alike Than Different?

When you think about it, it seems that those who choose to hide under the gay umbrella, are really more like those who choose 'extreme' religious beliefs, which could be why they are in a constant battle.

Both have their beliefs based on non-factual information tied to what someone else told them, or what the group told them to believe about who they are, where they came from, and their purpose in life.

Both must reject their real world experiences, and hang on to 'group' beliefs that have a negative impact on their personal life, their family and their future, while in the 'group' pretending that they are happy.

Both must stay within their small 'group' of those that have that same belief system, and think like them, to maintain their belief system about themselves and the world, so that their life choices are validated.

Both believe that 'their' belief system is right, while the rest of society is wrong for not accepting their 'group' beliefs as normal.

Both must consistently, passionately and even violently reject scientific facts, and anyone who presents those facts that contradict their chosen beliefs about themselves as individuals, in order to hold on to their chosen 'group' beliefs.

Could it be that the conflict between the 'extreme' religious and the 'extreme' gays is based on the fact that each group is trying to validate their own false beliefs about who they are, by rejecting others who have not made that same 'choice'.

A Few Facts You Forgot On The Way To Becoming Gay

In the process and excitement of becoming 'gay', many people, young and old tend to forget a few basic facts. Unfortunately forgetting the basics, tend to lead them down roads they never wanted to travel, take risks they never expected, and lead lives they never intended.

Let's start with just a few basic facts:

- No living being is born 'gay'. Gay is only a group identifier for a wide range of people only based on sex and gender differences outside the norm.

- No living being can be 'homosexual' or 'heterosexual'. These are only definitions of 'types' of sexual 'activity' a being, male, female, or animal can have.

- Living beings are born male, female and Intersex/bisexual.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex one day, and homosexual type sex the next. It's always a choice.

- A person can 'choose' to have heterosexual type sex for 20 years, homosexual sex for a year, then heterosexual type sex for another 30 years.

- A person can have 'choose' to never have homosexual type sex but only heterosexual type sex.

- Or they can 'choose' to never have heterosexual type sex, but only homosexual type sex.

- All beings are to a degree mentally Intersex since all males start as females and all females receive testosterone from the mother.

- All beings to some degree biologically bisexual. It's just that for most of us, our dominate male or female aspect thats more balanced with our physical gender keeps our natural attraction toward the opposite sex.

So when you look at the facts, the road to 'being' gay is not that straight. So now just ask yourself, how many back roads and dark alleys have you had to travel, to end up choosing to 'be' gay?

Give it some thought.

THE 30 GAY CURE

Are you finally ready to stop the never ending cycle of masturbating to the more masculine, more muscular attributes of other males you wished you had in yourself. And when it becomes an obsession, you end up calling it your 'lifestyle'??

Here are the 3 Basic Steps to help you get your life back, starting in Only 30 Days.


1. STOP MASTURBATING:

Most males who 'think' they were always sexually attracted to other males, don't realize following basic biological facts:

- Males have no sexual 'attraction' until puberty.

- All males are 'attracted' to other male 'attributes' as children that they wished they had, and want when they grow up.

- At puberty, when the male starts to masturbate to the 'admired' male attributes, he creates a manual sexual 'bond' with those attributes.

- That manual sexual 'bond' must be maintained by a constant stream of porn(admired male attributes of masculinity, body image and penis size)

- Avoid your previous masturbation buddies during this time also. Very much like a drug addict must avoid other users if he wants to quit.

Solution: All males are naturally sexually attracted to females, no matter how deep it's overshadowed by his masturbation to admired male attributes. If you need to masturbation, masturbate to an admired female image.

- Better yet, have sex with females, your girlfriend or wife if you want to have sex.


2. NO PORN:

You must avoid all Porn in magazines, on the web, gay web sites, in video.

- Images of male 'attributes' you admire serve to lower your own self esteem about your masculinity, body image and penis size.

- Whether it's male/female porn or same gender porn. The negative impact on the male is the same.

- Trying to 'compare' and 'compete' with porn stars only sets an unrealistic expectation of himself, and lowers his self esteem.

- Porn is also 'required' to maintain your manual sexual 'bond' with the admired male attributes.

Solution: Focus on other aspects of your life such as your hobbies and sports. If you don't have any hobbies, try new things, since porn and masturbation may have taken away the time you would have had for developing hobbies.


3. NO GYM:

You must avoid the gym which is only a 'tool' that enables males to continue his obsession for the body image used for masturbation.

- Your 'attraction' for another male is only because you want his body image. However, no matter how much you try to create that body image in yourself, there will always be another body image you admire more. So this cycle will never end.

- The gyms know this. Have you asked yourself why you must continue any 'gym' workout every 3 days or you loose all of the benefit??

- It's never about wellness, only a body image obsession, with becomes Body Dysmorphic Disorder.

Solution: Take up martial arts which is focused on overall wellness, instead of a body image obsession. Learn to develop aspects of yourself so that you won't feel the need to seek an 'upgrade' in another male, which you can never have.


OUTCOME:

What you will find is that the less porn you view, the less time you spend in a gym, and the less you masturbate to the attributes of other males, the less you find yourself 'attracted' to those attributes.

WHY?
This happens because you are beginning to transfer the 'habits' tied to your obsession with the attributes of other males, to 'habits' relating to activities you enjoy on a daily basis.

- You begin to understand that your natural organic sexuality should not require the maintenance via masturbation and porn.

- Your self esteem begins to come back into balance, as you are no longer 'measuring' yourself physically and sexually against other males with body image obsessions, or porn stars hired for the purpose of entertainment.

- You are able to regain your self respect that you had to fake for so long by hiding under the gay umbrella, pretending that your actions were OK and the problem was with everyone else.

- You no longer need to lie to your family, your girlfriend or your wife about masturbating with other males.

- You no longer need to feel guilty about 'thinking' about masturbating with other males, and cheating on your girlfriend or wife.


GIVE IT A TRY!

After you go through being angry that someone pointed out the obvious truth that you have been ignoring, or after you are done laughing at once again, someone is offering a cure for how you think you were born..........give it a try.

- If you fall off the wagon, start over from day 1. You must go 30 days in a row following each of the three steps.


Side Effects:
There are a few side effects of this program.

1. Your friends committed to 'being gay' will resent you, because they will see you as 'rejecting' them, since you are not choosing to be one of them. So avoid telling them you are testing.

2. Your interests will change from constant conversations about 'being' gay, 'gay' things, 'gay' lifestyles, 'gay' failed relationship attempts, and who's gay in the media to what you want out of life, and your interests not associated with sex and sexuality.

3. You will begin to see your life options become more expanded. The 'restriction' based on being 'committed' to a lifestyle based on homosexual sexual activity has less appeal.

4. You become free to make friends with males and females based on common interest and not based only on sexuality.

5. You are now able to look a potential mates not only based on 'gender', or what you wished you were, but based on the individual.

6. Your relationship or marriage with your wife becomes less stressful because you no longer have a big secret to hide..

7. Your marriage becomes stronger because you are no longer deceiving your wife in mind or actions.

Give yourself a chance. It won't cost you anything.

Go ahead...see what happens...

ARE YOU SEXUALLY ORGANIC?

Do you really know what your Organic Sexual Attraction really is?

Most males have no understanding of the difference between 'sexual attraction' and basic 'attraction'. Males are 'attracted' to anything they desire for themselves. The huge flat panel TV, the nice stereo system, the fast car, feminine female body, flashy clothing, big homes, Masculinity and a more muscular and stronger male body.

None of these items/attributes naturally have any sexual attraction for him. It's only when he begins to 'masturbate' to the admired images does he create a manual sexual 'bond' with those 'images.

The human and animal male sexual attraction for females is chemical in nature. The physical body is only an 'attraction' just like anything else, but it's the chemical reaction that creates the sexual attraction for females. The later sexual bond he creates with the female body only occurs when the physical body attraction is bonded with the very powerful pleasure of masturbation and orgasm.

However, males who feel attracted to other male 'attributes' are a bit different. There is no chemical reaction or connection with the other male. But it's ONLY a manual bond created through masturbating to the 'admired' male attributes. For many males, this starts at puberty.

This is why most males will always be sexually attracted to females, but will feel 'more' sexually attracted to males with 'admired' attributes of masculinity and muscular body image.

WHY IS THIS HAPPENING?

Because since puberty, he has not been able to establish his natural and organic sexuality. Through masturbation, he has consistently distorted his sexual attraction with masturbation to 'admired' male attributes he wished he had in himself.

The longer he masturbates to those admired attributes, the stronger the 'bond' he will create for those male attributes, and the more distorted his natural chemical sexual attraction will be for females.

The required use of all types of porn, naked male admired images, and the gym where over 90% of the males there are suffering from the same sexual dysfunction. Obsessed with trying to obtain the more masculine body image of another male in the gym, a magazine or on TV.

They go home and masturbation to their pumped up body image before it deflates, thinking they are attracted to other males. If they are unsuccessful in building their body into the admired image, they will naked male images and porn to masturbate to.

The reality is that they have only created a sexual bond with the male 'attributes' they admire of other males, that they wished they had in themselves.

Many males have been masturbating exclusively to admired male attributes all their lives and have never given himself an opportunity to experience his Organic Sexuality.

Most of these males end up choosing to 'be' gay and create a life and lifestyle based on a never ending cycle of porn and masturbation.

It takes daily maintenance to maintain a sexual bond with admired attributes. If that was not the case, there would be no need to masturbate on a daily basis and use props, or magazines and videos to become aroused.

IS THIS YOU?

Test yourself:
- Try to stop masturbating for 10 -20 - 30 days.
- Stay away from all porn on TV, magazines and on the Internet.
- Stay away from the gym where you are surrounded by other males stuck masturbating to create a sexuality.

What you will find is that your manual sexual 'bond' you currently have with admired male attributes will begin to fade. It will be confusing at first, because you are so conditioned to masturbating a a certain time each day.

So find another habit. Go walking, go running, do push-ups, in a very short time your new habit will begin to replace your old masturbation habit. Soon you will be able to go 2 or 5 days without a problem.

Remember, the addiction to masturbation is just alike any other addiction. Very similar to drug addiction, where there is withdrawal. Many males think they are just horny. That's not the case, as you will see by the 10th day.

So before you 'commit' to BEING a sexuality, how about first learning what your Organic Sexuality is.

You are guaranteed to surprise yourself.