Monday, February 2, 2009

2 Primary Reasons You Can't Find Friends....

Biologically Bisexual males have the most difficult time establishing and maintaining friendships and an even more difficult time establishing and maintaining intimate relationships as well.

A majority of the reasons for these difficulties, is his not understanding that he is biologically bisexual, and not understanding how to manage both his male and female aspects.

Friendships with other males fail mostly because:

1. His female aspect is always looking for more masculinity than he has within himself

2. His male aspect is always looking for a body image that he 'admires' and wants for himself.

So the result is that when he thinks he is seeking a friendship, he is actually trying to meet the masculinity requirement of his female aspect, along with the body image requirement of his male aspect.

He then exaggerates both requirements with consistent masturbation to the body images of more masculine and muscular males than himself.

The result of the consistent masturbation is:
- His female aspect will require an an even higher level of masculinity than his own, which has him automatically rejected by the other biologically bisexual male who is doing the same thing.

- His male aspect will require an even more muscular body image, because he will begin to try and obtain that body image in gyms by lifting weights obsessively. But he will still be rejected or used for his body and rejected, because even if the other biologically bisexual male is attracted to his body image or body parts, he will still reject him based on his level of masculinity that his own female aspect sees not masculine enough.

However, when the biologically bisexual male learns to balance his male and female aspects by:
- Learning more about his own biologically bisexual birth

- Understanding that his biologically bisexual birth has little to do with sex and sexuality

- Learning how to harness the natural born skills and abilities born of him by being born more mentally male and female and single gender males and females do not have within themselves.

- Limiting his masturbation to more muscular and more masculine body images

- Not restricting friendships to only biologically bisexual males

- Not restricting his potential for intimate relationships to only biologically bisexual males

- Not attempting to create a lifestyle based on sexual activity and his exaggerated 'attraction' for other males

- Not allowing a group or the media define who he is, capitalizing on his initial confusion about human sexuality.

- Take the "10 Day Sex Detox Challenge" so you can gain a glimpse of what life was like, before you created your exaggerated attraction and obsession for an upgrade.

Then his whole world opens up.

He no longer has a need to hide under the gay umbrella of shame, because he knows that it is not 'who' he is

He is able to become part of out society as a whole, because he no longer is living his life based on sexual desire and activity

He no longer has a need to restrict friendships based on sexual desire or body image

He no longer has a need to restrict his ability to build personal intimate relationships with others based on gender.

Give Yourself A Chance!

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