HARD TRUTHS

Have you noticed how the more feminine males are obsessed with 'attaching' the gay label on the males who are attracted to other males?

Could it be that the more feminine males are only trying deal with their own insecurity about their femininity by attempting to attach themselves to the more masculine males they wished they were, and who are more accepted in our society.

Could it be that the natural conflict between the masculine bisexual male, and the feminine bisexual male is that they both naturally are naturally attracted to more masculinity.

- The more feminine male seeks a male who is more masculine than himself.

- The more masculine male seeks a male who is more masculine than himself.

The result is:
(A): The more feminine male will join the gay group and constantly frustrate himself by obsessing over the more masculine male who will never be attracted to him.

(B): The more masculine male will constantly focus on distancing himself from the more feminine males and anything associated with the feminine male's gay group.

THE SOLUTION:
1. Realize that trying to create a lifestyle or identity based on sexual attraction, sexuality and sexual activity will NEVER work out.

2. Feminine males should stop masturbating to more masculine males who will NEVER be attracted to them, so that they are able to build a natural attraction to other feminine males like themselves. If they don't want someone like themselves, why do they expect someone else to.

3. Masculine males should stop masturbating to more masculine males and body parts they desire for themselves, so they can stop trying to 'upgrade' their masculinity and body image, so that they are able to maintain an attraction to another male like themselves.

4. Understand that no type of 'relationship' whether it's a friendship or intimate relationship can have a chance, if it's not based on 'earned' respect of both parties.

5. Understand that no type of 'friendship' can have a chance if both parties only have sex and sexuality in common.

6. Understand that no intimate relationship can have a chance if it doesn't start with a respectful and trusting friendship.

HARD TRUTHS:
No matter how many movies and television shows provide the 'image' of the more masculine male who is attracted to the feminine male, understand that it's television, make believe, not reality.

No matter how much you want it not to be true, if you do not show respect for yourself, and if you are not able to earn respect of the other male, he will not want you in his life.

If you do not focus on building yourself into a 'whole' person with morals, values, thoughts and ideas, no one will have a purpose to be with you long term. Period.

The more you 'try' to be an individual or 'yourself' the more you are 'trying' to be a stereotype.

If you try to create a lifestyle or identity out of 'being gay', you are only setting yourself up for failure because there will always be another male more attractive, more masculine you will be attracted to, who will reject you.

And your 'choice' to live a lifestyle based on sexual desire and activity is the only reason you will be rejected by your family and our society.

If you let the 'marketing' of the 'gay brand' create an identity for you, you will only end up trying to 'be' a shell of a person trying to be a stereotype.

By not understanding your biological birth, you only set yourself up to be 'blamed' for your birth when you had nothing to do with it. However, you have everything to do with the 'choice' if you choose to create a lifestyle or identity based on sexual attraction and sexual activity...being gay.

SO WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO NOW?