It's interesting how illogical so many men are when it comes to sexuality and sexual activity. It's as of they have no clue about who they are as males, or any factual knowledge about male sexuality. Which is why they end up controlled by the 'side effects' of their own behavior.
Here are a few facts to get you thinking:
Males are able to be attracted to and have sex with both males and females.
Over 87% of males admit to being attracted to both males and females.
Over 60% of males admit to having some sort of sexual activity with both males and females.
Over 75% of married males admit to being attracted to both males and females, along with having sexual activity with males and females at different times in their lives.
These males also have the 'option' and ability to establish relationships with a male or female based on common interest, respect and trust.
However, when a male 'chooses' to BE Gay, he 'restricts' his options for relationships to only other males.
Choosing to BE Gay, he no longer has the 'option' for sexual intercourse, but only masturbation with, on, against or inside another male for the rest of his life.
Choosing to BE Gay, his 'attraction' for other males is primarily tied to his 'desire' for body parts, masculinity and attributes of another male, he 'wished' he had in himself.
Choosing to BE Gay, his desire for his 'admired' male only has him rejected, because that other 'gay' males is doing exactly the same thing.
Choosing to BE Gay, he is left to simulating relationships, simulating intercourse, simulating friendships and choosing to live a lifestyle based on sexual desire and sexual activity.
So with so many males complain about how 'difficult' it is to BE Gay, why do they do it to themselves??
Could it be that it's only his consistent masturbation to images of the 'desired' males has the same impact of a drug addict?
Could it be that just like the drug addict, he can't see how he is creating his own exaggerated obsession for males not like himself?
Could it be that he has been stuck in this never ending cycle for so long, it's all he knows?
Could it be that he knows that he has done so much to degrade himself sexually for so many years, that he feels trapped in his chosen lifestyle?
Could it be that just like over 87% of males, he has a 'choice' as to who he has sex with?
Could it be that his 'choice' to BE Gay, is exactly what keeps him from being who he really is?
Could it be that the longer he 'chooses' to BE Gay, or blame 'Gay' for his obsession with masturbation, his sexual activity, his obsession with more masculine, more muscular, more confident males, the harder it will be for him to 'detox', so he has the opportunity to find who he really is?
Could it be that his choice to buy into the marketing of the 'gay brand' is why he is trying to create a lifestyle out of sex and sexual activity?
Could it be that he is not 'trapped' under the gay umbrella?
Could this be you?
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Interesting article. I would posit, however, that such "choices" are made, not in all cases, at a very early stage of development before their implications are understood in entirety. To develop as a thinking person and then later understand the implications without necessarily being able to "undo" those connections offers what "choice?"
ReplyDeleteYes, I do make the choice to be with men, absolutely. But even if I were to have sex with a woman the same choices are being ascribed to that woman, it's all temporal in nature is the arguement I read from this write up. Whether it's with all genders or just one it's all the same, a choice.
Here's an interesting proposition:
What would be the counter to one who would argue the following:
If you state that men having sex with men (MDM) cannot possibly have full "sex," what is the point of a bisexual man sleeping with women but never conceiving life? That's just as "meaningless" as your reductionist approach characterizes gay sex.