Only Because He IS.....What You Are NOT

Why do you think it is, that the males you feel you are 'attracted' to, just happen to be who you 'wished' you were?

When you are ready to be honest with yourself, you will realize that one or more of the following applies to you:

- You are attracted to masculine males, because you really don't feel as masculine as other guys.

- You are attracted to more muscular or athletic guys, because you 'wished' you had their body.

- You are attracted to a larger or harder penis, because you 'wished' you had a larger or that your penis would get or stay as hard.

- You are attracted to intelligent guys, because you 'wished' that you were as intelligent as you think he is.

- You are attracted to confident guys, because you 'wished' that you were as confident as you think he is.

- You are attracted to guys with respect for themselves, because you 'wished' that you were able to maintain respect for yourself.

- You are attracted to guys who are more stable and successful, because you 'wished' that you were able to have stability and success in your life.

Now if you still think that none of this applies to you, then think about the male images you use to masturbate to. Then pay attention to how the more you masturbate to those 'wished' attributes of another male, the more obsessed you become about those attributes.

Also notice that you must have a steady stream of 'wished' for male attributes to masturbate to for you to maintain your 'attraction' to those male attributes.

And finally, what you may already have figured out is that your only 'attraction' for other males, just may be in the 'attributes' you 'wished' that you had for yourself, and never really an 'attraction' for that other male.

Because no matter how you try to justify it or 'pretend' that your attraction is all mental or based on loving that person, what you will find is what keeps you from finding and maintaining a honest, respectful and lasting relationship with another male, is your desire to have the attributes of another male that you can NEVER have.

So maybe when you ready to stop 'justifying' your actions, or justifying your choice to 'be gay', it just might be time to finally gain an understanding of who you really are.

It's a New Day! Expand your Mind in 2009!