Have You Been Tested??

Do you ever think about the fact that so many males must focus on being 'tested' for sexually transmitted diseases, primarily because they are 'choosing' to have sexual activity with so many other males?

Just think about this for a minute:
Would you have a need to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases if you weren't choosing to have have sex with so many people you did not know?

That logic seems to have gone lost of many males who are caught in the web of 'being gay' and sexual activity being their 'identity', which they feel they must continue because it's 'who' they are.

Does that make any sense to you?
On thousands of profiles on the hundreds gay male sex websites, males try and find some level of pride in the fact that they are able to have promiscuous sex on a regular basis, but state they have not contracted a sexually transmitted disease.

Could the chosen 'lifestyle' that is based on promiscuous sexual activity, be the root cause for the steady increasing rate of sexually transmitted diseases among these males? All based on 'chosen' sexual activity. It's all a CHOICE.


What if you HONESTLY asked yourself a few basic questions before you made your choice?

- What if you choose 'not' to have promiscuous sexual activity with strangers on a regular or irregular basis that required consistent testing?

- What if you didn't hope and wish that he was not infected with a disease?

- What if you choose not participate in activity, that required constant testing to diagnose 'when' you will contract a sexually transmitted disease?

- What if you choose not to ignore your common sense, and continue to have sex with another male you 'know' is having promiscuous sex with other males?

- What if you choose not to believe any other male based on what he tells you about his STD Status?

- What if you didn't try to blame the 'other' male for being deceitful about his STD Status?

- What if you didn't try to blame the other male for having promiscuous sex, when he's doing the exact same thing that now has you infected?

- What if you focused on regaining your self respect, so that you would not have a need for promiscuous sex with strangers?

- What if you didn't continue to try and justify a 'lifestyle' based on the exact sexual behavior that will soon have you infected with a STD?

- What if you made better choices for your life with a future in mind?

There is ALWAYS a reason:
So maybe the next time you see a profile on the web, or a guy boasts about being 'tested', or who is actively or 'willing' to have promiscuous sex with you who he does not know.......just remember that there is a reason why he needs to be tested on a regular basis.

Think real hard on that fact before you choose to have sex with that person. And if you 'choose' to have sex with that person, it's all on you, because you already know why.

Whether the real test is whether or not you are 'choosing' the actions that requires testing for STD in the first place.

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