The Gay Alternate Definitions for an Alternate Lifestyle

This is a hot button topic for many committed 'gay' men and women. Very similar to those with extreme religious beliefs, it's much easier to blame the 'cause' of our 'actions' on something that is not within our control, so then we can't be held responsible. This tends to be another case where 'God' is to blame.


Most of the conflict and confusion comes from 'gay' men and women, choosing to adopt 'alternate' definitions for basic words in our dictionaries to help justify their position.


1. GAY: No human is born gay. Humans are born male, female and Intersex.


2. Homosexual/Heterosexual: This is a 'type' of sexual activity between two of the same gender. No person can 'be' a type of sexual activity.

3. Gender: Physical Male, Female, Intersex/bisexual(mix of male and female)

5. Gender Identity: The gender of a person from a mental perspective. Understanding that all fetus start at female, all males are a percentage female mentally.

6. Sexual Identity: Sexual identity is tied to gender identity. Physical gender does not ''naturally' dictate or influence gender identity or sexual identity.

7. Relationship: A state of affairs where two or more have a dealings. There are no boundaries to define the dealings between two or more parties.

8. Marriage: Two people committed to one another in a 'religious' ceremony, and bound by those religious vows.

9. Morals & Values: Codes of conduct for right and wrong agreed upon by a society.

8. Family: A group or persons living together or not, related by blood, marriage, union or adoption.

Here is where it gets sticky with many who choose to 'be' gay based on sex and sexuality. Many specifically males, tend to adopt the following behaviors as 'normal' or part of their chosen 'lifestyle', with very negative psychological results:

9. Whore: A person who engages in promiscuous sexual activity. Many try to call it 'fun' or 'entertainment', but it does not change the true definition.

10. Prostitute: A person who engages in promiscuous sexual activity for payment of some type, money, gifts, food, drugs, etc. Many times he will call himself an escort.

11. Sex Addict: A person who is enslaved to a habit or practice of sexual activity that is psychologically or physically habit-forming, to such an extent that its cessation causes severe trauma. This addiction tends to become the basis for a 'lifestyle' for many males who are focused on 'being' gay.

12. Body Dysmorphic Disorder: A pathological preoccupation with an imagined or slight physical defect of one's body to the point of causing significant stress or behavioral impairment, such as an obsession with modifying his body in a gym, or reducing body fact to an unhealthy level, which has a negative impact on several areas of life, including personal relationships.

With so much being sold to us on a daily basis. It's no surprise that the worst aspects of human behavior tied to sexual addiction and body image obsession, has become a lifestyle 'choice' for many, when the gay group promotes that lifestyle as 'normal'.

Those intersex men and women who are able to avoid or are strong enough to fight their way out of the 'lifestyle' are often times met with resentment by those committed to their lifestyle choices. They see this as a 'rejection' of their lifestyle choices, and are forced to look at the possibility that there is another option for them.

But sadly, so many have done so much to degrade themselves over the years under the concept of the 'gay lifestyle', they may feel that attempting to make a change in their lives, means they would have to admit the truth of their previous actions. For many, that's too much reality for them to take.