What Does Gay Failure Look Like?

Many men in particular are suffering the long term effects of choosing to live a gay 'lifestyle'. We all see this expressed in the media, in the news, and those more connected with the gay 'community', you see it in the clubs and on the internet.

When you see these 'gay' males, often times you might reject them immediately based on his overt sexual activity and desperate attempt to look 'different'. They seem to focus on looking different than everyone else as if to reject the rest of our society, but at the same time, seeking to be accepted by that same society. But in the end, they still look like all the rest......trying to be different......trying to be themselves.

You ask yourself why would anyone do that to themselves on purpose, and then you may feel sorry for them.

Why does he modify his appearance so he is rejected by others before they even meet him?

Why does he reject basic morals and values of his own society the he grew up with?

Why does he offer himself for all types of sexual activity with strangers?

Why does he seem obsessed with males more masculine than himself?

Why does he seem obsessed with his own body image?

Why does he exaggerate his female aspect?

So maybe it's time for Intersex/gay people to talk to each other, to talk about the problems they are having, and to focus on better life choices.

Maybe it's time to take steps to help yourself? Maybe it's time for the older Intersex/gay males to understand that they set the example for younger intersex males who are born into their small minority.

Maybe it's time...