Should Gay/Intersex Males Be Treated As Females?

Could it be that the mistake that gay/Biologically Intersex/bisexual males have with each other, is that they try and treat each other as if they were only males? Since it's his female aspect that is attracted to the other male, by responding to him on a more male level, his female aspect is ignored. But when he is treated like a female would expect to be treated, he feels respected by the other male.

Unfortunately, when the gay/intersex male is in conflict with his own male and female aspects, he gives off conflicting messages to a potential partner such as:

- He claims to be dominate in the relationship, but his female aspect takes over and makes him submissive.

- He wants the stability of a trusting and secure relationship, but his male aspect is focused on the physical and immediate gratification.

In each case, when the gay/biologically Intersex/bisexual male ignores his female or male aspect and does not focus on gaining and maintaining balance, his life becomes an example of that conflict. No gay/intersex male started his journey with a focus on becoming promiscuous or resorting to having many failed relationship attempts, but until he steps back and looks at his life objectively, he will be doomed to repeat the same cycle, over and over again.

Any thoughts??