Saturday, December 20, 2008

What Does It Really Mean To Be OUT?

Have you noticed that once a most males choose to be 'gay' and 'out', he tends to become less focused on being a whole respectable person, and more focused on rejecting our societies basic morals and values and use the 'out' concept to justify a lifestyle of overt sexual activity?

For many, could the concept of being 'out' only mean that he is choosing to put his sex life 'out' in the public domain, in the face of men, women and children who have no interest in his sex life?

If the focus is to represent that being 'gay' is normal and respectable, why is there little focus for many 'gay' males to be 'respected' by his society instead of only 'tolerated'?

1 comment:

  1. So are you saying that it's ok for people to (mis)judge a person's sexual proclivities based on outward appearance?

    In addition, I don't think that people put their sex lives out in the public domain when they come out. The people that express themselves more colorfully were probably never "in" to begin with.

    And finally, when I decided to accept the fact that I was attracted to men, I didn't changed my appearance or personality.

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