Is Gay 'WHO' You Are?

So could it be that so many males are superficial because they see themselves as a GBM, or GAY before any other aspect of themselves? Could it be that by trying to 'be' sex and sexuality, thats all he looks for in another person and is prepared to offer? And just like any sexual encounter, once he ejaculates, all interest in the sex 'object' is gone...

Well, it's obvious that once a person chooses to define himself first as 'gay', then his race, and finally as a male, this is a very clear subconscious message to himself that sex and sexuality is his primary focus.

With Biologically Intersex/bisexual males, his female aspect will ALWAYS be attracted to more masculinity than he has within himself, and his male aspect will be attracted to the physical muscularity that he wants for himself...he will be stuck in never ending cycle of being attracted to more masculine males, that will reject him, because he is naturally less masculine. And his male aspect will use the physical body, and once he ejaculates, he looses all interest in the body...and his female aspect is off to seek the masculinity she desires.

So until he learns to manage both his female and male aspects...the biologically intersex/bisexual male will forever be stuck in this self inflicted catch 22. What do you think?