Why So Many Young Feminine Males?

It's not only other Intersex males asking that question, it's mothers and fathers who are asking also. But not asking loudly, because they don't know the answer, or just don't want to know the answer.

My BlogBook 'Women Creating Gay Children'http://creatinggaychildren.blogspot.com/, speaks to how this is happening in great detail. But for the Biologically Intersex/bisexual male searching for his more masculine male, so many feminine males tends to cause a bit of frustration.

Not understanding that what has the more masculine male attracted to other more masculine males, is the same condition that has other males more feminine than other male. Not knowing this fact, intersex males reject those more masculine males and call them names, just because they are more intersex than he is himself.

Unfortunately, those more masculine intersex males, are who the more feminine males are 'naturally' attracted to. The female aspect of the intersex male will 'always' be 'naturally' attracted to a level of masculinity greater than 'her' own. So this puts the two males in conflict with each other.

But more on to the why so many young feminine guys question:
Understanding how intersex children are created, what seems to be the growing cause is the chosen and sometimes forced lifestyle many women lead today.

When a women is pregnant, and the fetus is triggered to be transformed to male, she must provide enough testosterone for the male to develop mentally and physically male. However, if the female is stressed, she produces more estrogen, which inhibits the flow of testosterone to the male child. the result is a physical gender male child, who remains to various degrees female. This can be from 1% to 100%. More detail on this is in the attached blog "Women Creating Gay Children".

So why so many more feminine or more intersex male children?
Well, take a look at the lifestyle of many women in just our society alone. Either choosing to work full time outside the home, or having to work to support herself, help support her family, or as a single mom. The impact of this additional 'stress' her life has a definite impact on the fetus primarily within the first trimester(two months). The more stressed she is, the greater and more severely intersex the child will be.

Today over 1 in every 2,000 births are at the physical level which often times requires 'questionable' surgery to define a physical sex for the new born. And this is just those extreme cases. The more mental cases are much higher and shows up in early childhood and spikes at puberty.

Not this is not a commentary about working women, but one on the lack of information for women on the impact of working during her first trimester pregnancy and the gender identity of her male child.

The current practice for women is to work up and until the last week of pregnancy, before she begins to take more care of herself. But by this time, the intersex child is already complete. And the more women focused on a stressful career, or in a bad relationship, or as a single parent, the chances of creating an intersex child, at all levels of the condition increases dramatically.

The proactive goal is for women to begin to provide more loving care for her child at the first weeks or within the first two months of the pregnancy. After the first trimester, nothing else done has an impact on the child's mental gender development. This has been proven many times again and again.

So why no focus from the medical community to promote more relaxed care for women during the first trimester of her pregnancy?
It could be due to the cost. Once the medical community promoted the concept of well baby care during the first trimester, insurance companies and corporations would have to food the bill. More medical care costs and more maternity time off for the mother. Just like many other known medical issues in our country, it's dollars that keep the basic knowledge from the general public.

Who's responsibility is it anyway?
But it's really up to women and the fathers to take control of their wellness and the responsibility for the wellness of their unborn child. Clearly no parent wants to create an Intersex child with the challenges he or she will face in life, so it's up to the parents to take the necessary steps to do all they can to ensure the complete health of their child.

But one thing that everyone else can do is to ensure women are aware of what's happening, so that they can take the very simple and loving steps toward ensuring her child is born with a more balanced gender identity. Whether it's your little bother, your nephew or grandchild, the more women in your life know about ensuring their child is healthy the better.

So now that you know, think about how you react to more feminine Intersex males than yourself. It's perfectly normal for some males not to be attracted to feminine males, but respecting those 'that earn respect', only returns respect to yourself.

The BlogBook, 'Women Creating Gay Children' http://creatinggaychildren.blogspot.com/, was created as a separate blog. This BlogBook is available for free to women who want to understand more about what she can to for the health of her child.

This BlogBook is NOT connected to the other Intersex blogs from that BlogBook, so that males not comfortable with sending females in their lives to 'Intersex/gay' related material can feel comfortable.