Who Said Attraction Had To Be Sexual?

So many Biologically Intersex/bisexual or gay males who have bought into the marketing concepts around the gay group, have created a distorted sexual perception about what a basic 'attraction' actually is.

Just because you are 'attracted' to something or someone, or they are attracted to you, does not mean that the attraction is 'sexual'. However, through the distorted perspective of many intersex/gay males, a desperate attempt to be accepted by others, or out of loneliness and a desperate desire for companionship, any and all 'attention' toward him, tends to be seen as sexual attraction.

This distorted view of 'attention' given, creates even more interpersonal problems for the intersex/gay male, because his response to 'attention' is based on a sexual attraction, which causes him to be rejected not only by other non-intersex males, but intersex males as well, who were only looking for friendship.

To help clarify what is happening, lets break down the concept of 'attraction' to it's simplest forms:

Attraction: The action of drawing a response or attention of another. You see, this definition has nothing to do with sex and sexuality. Most men are 'attracted' to cars, big trucks, flat panel TVs, electronics and natural beauty. In most cases, the males 'attraction' is based on something that he wants for himself. What he is attracted to, in most cases, it's what he wants for himself.

This does not mean he wants to have sex with the cars or electronics?
But he wants to own the car, or TV, or obtain the body image he finds 'attractive'.

Sexual Attraction: The only difference between 'attraction' and a 'sexual' attraction is a sexual bond with the subject. In most cases this bond is a manual bond created through marketing or by the masturbation behavior of the male.

However for the intersex male, by being to a certain extent mentally female, his female side will 'naturally' have a sexual attraction for other males. This duality in gender creates a challenge for the intersex male where he must:

1. Manage his male aspects basic attraction for objects,
2. Manage his male aspects attraction for feminine females,
3. Manage his female aspects basic attraction for objects
3. Manage his female aspects attraction for other masculine males.

When he allows his female aspect to dominate his male aspect, he becomes sexually obsessed with other more masculine males, which generally leads him to continue to lower his morals and values to do whatever it takes to have sex with the desired masculine body image.

When he tries to ignore his female aspect, she comes out when he least expects it, and sabotages his relationships with other females through personal attacks, or cheating on her with another male. This melodrama plays itself out on a consistent basis.

And the idea of giving up, and trying to see yourself as just a free 'sexual' being, only sets you up to becoming a promiscuous male, who in the end, neither male or female will want you in their lives in the morning.

So for the many intersex males who focus on who a person is based on their mind and spirit, you are on the right track. Becaue as we all know, if the 'attraction' is really only sexual, once the newness wears off, the 'attraction' is gone.