Friday, January 2, 2009

Bisexual and Biracial...Biologically!

It may be easier for many people to understand what it means to be Bisexual or biologically Intersex, if they think about it from the perspective of being Biracial.


Let's start with the definitions:


Biracial: –adjective: consisting of, representing, or combining members of two separate races

Intersex/Bisexual: –noun Biology: an individual displaying sexual characteristics of both male and female.

Now both Biracial and biological Intersex/Bisexual aspects of who a person is racially and based on gender from birth, deals with individual variations of each aspect of their birth. No two persons are the same as it relates to the degree or level of being Biracial or biologically Intersex.

Just as a person can be part of one or more races, a person can be biologically born various levels of both genders, mentally or mentally and physically.


Attempting to ignore or reject one aspect of their being creates conflict.

Biracial: Attempting to ignore or reject your other races aspect or your other side of your family creates mental trauma for the individual.

Intersex/Bisexual: At temping to ignore or reject your other gender aspect, or you female side of your bring, creates mental trauma for the individual.


Failure Rates:
This fact is why there is such a failure rate in the lives on many levels of the individuals who try to deny the racial diversity of their own family and being, with very similar failure rates in the lives of the many individuals who attempt to reject either his male or female aspect.

Attempting to live a DL lifestyle based on lies and deceptions and promiscuity only creates trauma in the life of the individual and other people in their lives

Attempting to live a GAY lifestyle based on sexual desire, masculinity and body image obsession, and promiscuity only creates trauma in the life of the individual and the people in their lives.

Attempting to live as a Same Gender Loving only creates internal conflict, because it tries to reject your male aspect, to restrict the ability to love only the same gender, or choose to only have sex with the same gender. Again, a failed identity based on sexual activity.


The Benefit of Characteristics:
Just as being born biologically Biracial brings more of a blend of the various characteristics of each race of people from all over the world, being born biologically Intersex/Bisexual does the same with the blending of gender characteristics of both male and female.

However, when the individual becomes lost in a false identity tied to sexuality and sexual obsession, he/she looses the benefits of gender blending, and suffers greatly in his personal relationships, his self esteem, respect and position in his/her society. It's not worth it.

So take a lesson from the many Biracial men and women in the world who proudly claim their racial diversity, now it's time for you to proudly claim your gender diversity.

No longer do you need to hide under the 'gay' umbrella of shame, with an association with a lifestyle based on sexual desire, body image obsession and sexual obsession.

Once you learn to embrace and manage both your male and female aspect, as an biologically Intersex/Bisexual person, you will be able to harness all of the characteristics of both genders as male or female.

No longer will you need to 'restrict' who you are 'able' to love based on their gender.

Only then will you be able to establish and maintain trusting and respectful friendships and establish and maintain trusting, respectful and monogamous intimate relationships with another person, male or female.

Learn more, read the archived postings in this blog with more information about the lower or mental Intersex condition. Along with checking out the Intersex Society of North America who focuses on more extreme physical Intersex conditions, at http://www.isna.org/.

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