Thursday, January 22, 2009

Relationships....male, female or Both?

We have all grown up knowing that relationships and marriages were between a man or a women.

Over the years as more males and females are bring born biologically bisexual/intersex, we are slowly moving toward more accepted relationships and marriage between two men or two women.

As we progress through this cycle of growth and understanding around love between men and women, the next logical step may be not with a focus on single gender, but on duel genders, where relationships between two bisexual males and one single gender female, or two bisexual females and one single gender male, may bring about the most balance.

How could this be?
Well, understanding that the bisexual male 'naturally' will be attracted to males and females. It only males sense that his relationship includes both a male and female.

The benefits of this type of relationship are that:
- Both males are able to meet the 'natural' an biological needs of both his female and male aspects from a mental, spiritual and sexual perspective.

- The female being able to have her natural mental, spiritual and sexual needs met

- Both males and the female are able to have children and raise a stable family

The same benefits weigh in when there is one male and two females. Both females will be able to 'naturally' have both their male and female aspects met, along with the single gender male, and they would be able to bear children and raise a family.

It's all about balance:
No longer would a duel gender male or female have to 'choose' between meeting the 'natural' needs of his or her male or female aspect, but be able to be completely balanced in a stable, open and honest strong relationship that meets the needs of all three individuals in the committed relationship.

Also under certain laws, the rights of all three would be tied to the fact that they are all parents of children between them, even though marriage would currently not be an option because of polygamy laws.

However with biologically bisexual males this type of relationship would enable him to become more of a whole person, while not restricting who he is 'able' or 'allowed' to love, solely based on gender, but the 'individuals' that he loves and is able to commit to.

Interesting concept....what are your thoughts?

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