Males Exaggerating Femininity....

Once of the most complained about issue with biologically bisexual/intersex males is that they are not attracted to overly feminine males.

Now what's 'overly' feminine for one male will be different than another, since what he sees as feminine is based on how much more masculinity his female aspect seeks greater than his own.

Remember, biologically bisexual/intersex males are both mentally male and female, and his female aspect will 'naturally' seek males more masculine than her own male aspect. It's always going to be an upgrade. However, the more he masturbates to more masculine, more muscular body images, the more of a masculinity and body image 'upgrade' his female aspect will expect.

Ok, back to exaggerated femininity.

The majority of the overly feminine males don't even realize that they are 'acting' in such a manner. This is because his female aspect which has a male aspect attached, overcompensates for her masculine side.

So these males tend to be 'larger than life' feminine. Many of them attach themselves to larger than life feminine actresses and singers when in their 'entertainment' personality. 'Over the top' with femininity, actions, speaking, dress, body decorations, etc.

Essentially trying to become a reflection of the make believe image of a the female, never meant for a real world life or a lifestyle tied to the make believe world.

But how does a male get to the point where he is exaggerating more femininity?
1. As a younger male, tries to fit a stereotype of what he thinks it means to 'be' gay and accepted by those in the gay group.

2. Tries to fill the role of a female in an effort to attract more masculine males.

3. Tries to ensure other females know that he is not attracted to them, so he doesn't have to tell them he is attracted to men, and deal with their potentially negative response.

4. He knows he has a feminine aspect, and through excessive and consistent masturbation to the more masculine male images he 'desires' for himself, his female aspect dominates him, and he ignores his male aspect, which throws him off balance.

It's the same story, over and over again...
We see this play out consistently with biologically bisexual or intersex males who still do not understand 'why' he feels attracted to other males.

The result tends to be the same. He modifies his body image to 'simulate' more femininity:
- Arching and plucking eyebrows

- Polishing fingernails, whether clear or not

- Wearing more feminine colors and clothing

- Wearing more feminine type hairstyles

- Wearing more jewelry or dangling jewelry

- Claiming to be in fashion so his female clothing can be seen as 'fashionable'

- Claiming to be a model due to an exaggerated self image tied to his feminine modifications

The Outcome
But sadly, all the effort tied to exaggerated femininity, is rejected my the majority of the more masculine males his female aspect is attracted to. This is very simply because his female aspect is 'naturally' attracted to masculinity 'greater' than his own.

Which even more sadly, leaves the 'exaggerated feminine' male to be either used by non-bisexual males who are obsessed with sexual activity and look for a 'simulated' female for an outlet, and then back to his girlfriend or wife that he loves, or by the non-bisexual male who has been rejected by females for one reason or another.

But it does not have to be this way.
If biologically bisexual/intersex males would seek knowledge about 'why' he is naturally attracted to other males, he will find that it's really never been about sex and sexual activity in the first place.

He will find that his duel gender birth is more about obtaining the very powerful talents and abilities of both genders in one person. He will find that by learning to balance both his male and female aspects, he is not 'restricted' to who he can love based on 'gender', but based on who he falls in love with. He will find that there is no need to 'commit' to a gender, before he has a 'person' to commit to.

However, to understand who he is biologically, he must seek knowledge, and not depend on the media or special interest groups to 'tell' him who he is based on a stereotype.

Maybe it's time to Open Your Mind in 2009!