Going Through the Sexual Motions...

I find it amazing at how many males I talk to that state that much of the sexual activity the end up participating in, is less than fulfilling, and more of something to go through because he thinks it's what the other male wants.

The Anticipation...
Overwhelmingly, the males who comment on this issue state that the 'idea' and 'anticipation' of potential sexual activity with an 'imaginary' male, is much more fulfilling for them, than the actual sexual activity with the male he has sex with in the real world.

Most of the males state that it's because the male he ends up having sex with, never really meets the standards of the male in his 'imagination'.

Other males state that the 'sex' aspect tens to be only a shaking of hands, to get it out of the way, to see if they can be sexually compatible, and then to find if they have anything in common, or have a potential for even a friendship.

In the vast majority of these cases, the sex is lacking, and there is always something wrong. His body is either less muscular than 'imagined', his penis is smaller than 'imagined', or the sexual activity was less fulfilling than 'imagined'.

However, the 'attraction' for the less masculine/submissive of the two, is the other males greater level of masculinity, with the 'anticipation' of a more muscular body and larger penis. And for the more masculine/dominate male, the less masculine male turns out to be a 'compromise, because he was bored or horny. 9 times out of 10, as soon as the more masculine male ejaculates, he looses most of his 'attraction' or interest in the less masculine male.

The Result...
The result is that the more masculine/dominate male will want to remove himself from the less masculine/submissive male as quickly as possible. He will agree to most anything as far as phone calls or other meetings until he is able to escape. The less masculine of the two becomes frustrated and cries 'games' as the more masculine male will continue his search for his own more masculine male.

Why does this happen?
It's all because both males do not understand that they are both born biologically bisexual and if he lets his female aspect dominate him, he will subject himself to much trauma during his lifetime, by letting his 'emotional' aspect dominate his logical aspect, which allows him to be used for a sexual release, time and time again.

Once he is able to balance his male and female aspects, and not let his female aspect dominate him, only then will be be able to provide the other biologically bisexual male what he needs to meet both his male and female aspects, and not try to 'simulate' being a female in a man's clothing.