Friday, January 2, 2009

Think You Were Attracted To Males Since Childhood?

Many males choose to belong to the gay group or to 'be' gay for very common reasons.

One of the most common justifications used is that they were 'attracted' to men when they were a child, some think as early as age 4.

Let's start with a few facts:

- Biologically, children do not have a sexual attraction for anything before puberty. So you could not be sexually attracted to males as a child.

- All males are attracted to those they admire and things that they admire and want for themselves. They want to be fireman or a policeman because they see them driving big shiny trucks and racing in cars with sirens.

- Other children admire other male figures in their life because they want to be like them when they grow up. Again, children have no sexual attraction.....period.

- As the child ages, the more he admires other males he feels are more outgoing, stronger or more popular than himself, the more he wants to be like that other male.

- There will never be a case where a child is 'sexually' attracted to another male. The child may attempt to simulate behavior of others for 'attention' from the person they admired.

So basic human biology proves there is NO possibility for a person to be sexually attracted to a male as a child.

It is only in adolescence, when the male begins to masturbate to the images of people and things he 'admires', that he creates a 'sexual bond' with those people and things. This is how males create a 'sexual bond' with males, females and other things in their lives.

Now that you understand that you could never have had a 'sexual attraction' for other males as a child....what's your next excuse??

Take the 10 Day Sex Detox Challenge.

1 comment:

  1. I knew I was attracted to dudes from a young age but it was never a physical thing. I liked the intimacy of cuddling with another dude. I remember I had a crush on my babysitters son. I though it was so cool that he held my hand when he walked me home..

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