What If Gay Was Not An Option?

For many Biologically Intersex/bisexual males, hiding under the gay umbrella has become their identity. But what if the 'term' gay never existed, who would they be?

In an effort to create an 'identity' many males who feel disconnected from our society for one reason or another, choose to identity as 'gay'. Understanding that no person can be born gay, since gay is only a term that relates to a group.

There is no born 'condition' that is associated with the term gay. Even marriage between two of the same gender are called 'same sex marriage'. The only people that recognize the term gay, are those people hiding under the gay umbrella.

Marketers understand the demographic they want to sell products and services to, so they will call you whatever you want to be call, to get you to buy their product or service. It's all about money, and how to get it from your hands, to theirs.

Our media uses the term gay quite freely. Actors, singers and TV personalities will come 'OUT' as gay, to show their support for the gay group. But do understand that these actors, singers and TV personalities are only coming out to 'attract' an audience to whatever media outlet that is looking for 'viewers' or 'consumers' to buy the products they are selling.

So thinking the idea of being 'gay' is 'validated' because you see it in the media or on TV or in print alot, understand that if the gay group was not such an easy target for marketing most any product tied to the stereotype of being gay, the marketers would not put forth the effort.

What may be the most important aspect of this issue is that, if the concept of 'gay' did not exist, who would many of these intersex people be? What will be their identity?

Well, let's look at a few of the true benefits of what being born part of both genders and bisexual can provide a person:

1. He is able to have a better connection to his female aspect, which enables him to communicate with females more effectively, while being able to effectively communication with males. This is why biologically Intersex/bisexual males tend to have many more female friends than non-bisexual males.

3. He is able to connect more effectively with his emotional aspect, male and female, and generally has more empathy for others. This is why biologically Intersex/bisexual males tend to volunteer and come to the aid of people in need more freely than those non-intersex males.

4. He is able to provide nurturing along with maintaining his the strength and logic of the male aspect. This is why you see more biologically Intersex/bisexual males in roles such as religious leaders or Human Resource workers, doctors, nurses, or where the welfare of others is their primary focus.

5. He is able to absorb and process massive amounts of information, through his dual processing associated with both right brain and left brain processing. This is why you see many more biologically Intersex/bisexual males with more higher level advanced degrees than non-bisexual males, and successful business owners, and leaders of industry.

6. He is more creative due to the combination of the visual and spacial ability of the male, along with the ability to see the complex color variations of the female. This is why you see more biologically intersex/bisexual males in creative arts positions in design of products, clothing, homes, interior design, landscaping and software development.

7. He is able to better communicate in writing through his ability to think expansively, and his female aspect for expressive writing. This is why you see biologically Intersex/bisexual males as more authors of books, connoisseur of literature, poetry and music.

8. He is able to articulate his thoughts more effectively through expanded speech abilities from his female aspect. This is why you see more biologically Intersex/bisexual males as speakers, television announcers, radio show hosts, etc.

9. He has the capacity to feel deep emotional love for both males and females. This is why balanced biologically Intersex/bisexual males are able to have committed relationships with either males or females.

The list goes on and on...
This is only a few of the true skills and abilities born of the many men who are born with various levels of the biologically Intersex/bisexual condition. But unfortunately, instead of embracing his advanced natural born abilities, many Intersex males are pulled down by the media driven concepts of 'being gay' and an identity, and lifestyle only based on sex and sexuality.

So the question remains. Who is an Biologically Intersex/bisexual person, if he no longer had 'gay' as an identity?

Well here is the short list....

He is a man.
He is human.
He is a trusted friend.
He has personal character.
He is honest and trustworthy.
He has basic morals and values.
He is able to earn the respect of others.
He is a productive member of our society.
He is a man that has respect for himself in all he does.
He is a man that gains knowledge to empower himself.
He is able to 'love' whoever he loves, regardless of their gender.
He is a man born with the benefit of the mental duality of both male and female genders.

So now the question is, who will you 'choose' to be?